We understand quite well that men would do anything possible, go the extra mile to please and satisfy any woman they are interested in. However, most times men act so childish to go about this interest.
It
is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one stupid. As a
man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines to know
what’s favourable and what’s not.
We
are not saying you shouldn’t be romantic, it is a good thing to be
romantic but not to the detriment of yourself and you should know that
just because something might be done in the name of love does not make
it the right thing to do and these are the few you should try as much as
possible to avoid or never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.
1. Commit a crime for her: Obviously,
we all know where this will end you and by the time you will be back,
someone might have taken your place. Never allow anything to push you to
steal in order to please your woman because if she later finds out you
actually stole a gift for her, she might drop you, unless of course, you
are in it together like Bonny and Clyde.
2. Go out of your way to provide for her: No
one is asking you not to please your woman, but doing it to the extreme
is what you should avoid. Some men put themselves under unnecessary
pressure because they want to see to the basic needs of their partners.
Some men pay their women’s school fees and do everything they could for
them. It is pathetic to know that some of these women still walk away
after the men must have invested in them. This is really not fair; in
order not to nurse a feeling of rejection, it would be best to do things
out of the goodness of your heart and not because you want to please
her.
3. Give up your dreams for her: It
is no longer love when you decide to give up your dreams and
aspirations because of a woman. You should not stop living because you
have found love. While you are in love, there should be a synergy
between the two of you; you should have similar life goals and
objectives in order to have the best out of that relationship. There
have been cases where men lack the will to live because the women they
built their lives around left. Do not make silly life choices because
you are in love.
4. Buy her a house/ car when you don’t have one: Common
sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not
favour her and think of yours later. Building a house or buying a car
for a woman when you don’t have one yourself can make you is wrong in
every way. When she finally jilts you and lives in it with another man.
There are many men still biting their fingers over this.
5. Fight another man because of her: Fighting
because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen,
either the person beats you to a pulp and end up in the hospital or you
will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win.
Unless it is for self-defence.
6. Reject your family because of her: A
family is everything and no matter what, you can’t reject them because
your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to
reject your family all because of a woman.
7. Change your appearance: These
days, men take pills or hit the gym all because of a woman. You should
not do all that because of a woman. She may have your best interest at
heart, but you should only improve your appearance because you want to.
8. Being over-submissive: It
is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records
straight and don’t try to always appear weak to her and succumb to all
her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually
hate weak men and will prefer you’re sweet and sour.
9. Starve yourself for her: Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.
10. Die for her, literally: So
many men have committed suicide because of a woman. What’s the sense in
it when you’re finally dead and gone. Live to fight another day.
11. Yeah! I will leave this place for you guys to add yours. If you have any thing a man should never do for a woman, kindly drop it in the comment box below…
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