Every once in a while – on very rare
occasions – we meet the woman of our
dreams. It's always unexpected and almost
never at a convenient point in our lives, but
she appears nonetheless and changes your
life forever.
The dynamics between man and woman have
been gradually changing for the past few
decades, but the essence of the partnership
basically remains the same.
We are designed by nature in a way that
allows two such opposites to join and make a
whole. Finding your other half is a journey of
its own – usually a grueling one at that.
If you are lucky enough to find that woman,
that rare sunflower growing on a barren
desert, then do right by yourself and hold on to
her as tightly as you can – never, ever let her
go.
Not all of us were so wise when we met the
loves of our lives… and believe me when I say
that we're regretting it. If she has any
combination of these 12 qualities then you
should never let her go:
1. She's smarter than you.
Every man needs a smarter woman to help
him get through life in one piece. They say
that behind every great man is a greater
woman – they aren't lying. Without woman,
man is little more than an ego-trip.
Enter a smarter woman into his life and
suddenly that ego has a purpose, a direction,
and the wisdom not to screw everything up.
2. She's beautiful.
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder – as
long as you find her to be incredibly beautiful,
according to your definition, then she is worth
holding on to.
I feel that these days we have those that put
too much emphasis on beauty and then those
that are rebelling against the concept and
giving little to no importance to beauty.
Beauty is something that has been reveled
upon since humans had eyes; it's not
something that we should be ashamed of, but
rather something we should learn to
appreciate properly.
3. She's kind and nurturing.
Good people are kind people. If she isn't kind
then she isn't worthy of taking up a part of
your life. Being a woman, being nurturing is
very important as well. Some people may not
want children.
In some relationships the man may be more
nurturing than the woman. Nevertheless,
women are born with/develop maternal
instincts with age. If you wish to one day start
a family then you want to be sure you found a
woman who wants to be, and is suited to
become, a mother.
4. She's vivacious.
Life gets difficult from time to time. It can get
boring and monotonous just as well.
Women weren't created to entertain men – if
anything, it's probably the other way around –
but having a woman who is lively, energetic
and hungry for adventure will add a dynamic
to your life that will only make you happier.
5. She loves you with all her heart.
This is, by far, the most important quality any
woman can have. When a woman loves you
she loves you with her entire soul. It's not the
same sort of love that men experience – men
always were and always will be more
egocentric than women.
Women, on the other hand, have the uncanny
ability to devote themselves entirely to the
person(s) they love. If you find a woman that
truly loves you then you found the greatest gift
in the universe.
6. She's willing to make compromises.
People are stubborn – both male and female
alike. We like things the way that we like them
and aren't especially open to making changes
we don't deem necessary to make. However,
relationships require making compromises.
It's just the way things have to work if you
want them to work. Finding a woman who will
make compromises is only half the battle,
however. You're going to have to make them
just as well.
7. She feels like home.
Being in love, deeply in love, is like finding
your place in the world, your home, for the
first time in your life. It's knowing that you are
exactly where you ought to be and that there
is nowhere in the world you'd rather be.
If you look into her eyes and see your soul
reflected in them, then you're home. Don't
ever leave.
8. She is more than happy to tell you when
you're wrong.
Every man – and I mean every man – needs a
woman who will call him out on his sh*t. Guys
have an uncanny ability to make poor
decisions and do stupid things.
Finding a woman who will keep you on track
and tell you when you're wrong can very well
make or break your life.
9. She is strong, but feminine.
All people have a slightly different taste for the
women they are attracted to – but they are all
a combination of strength and femininity. A
strong woman is a partner every man needs.
A feminine woman is… well, a woman. The two
aren't opposites. In fact, they are often one
and the same – when found in a woman that
knows how to hold her ground and be proud of
who she is.
10. She's passionate.
A life filled with passion is a life worth living.
But living a life of passion alone is basically
impossible. Passion exists between two living
things – usually, in some way or another,
between two individuals.
The beauty of passion is that it's rather
contagious. It's the world's most revered
pathogen.
11. She's driven.
I understand that some men want women to
be stay-at-home wives. I also understand that
there are plenty of women who want the very
same. This sort of woman isn't for me, but
clearly some people are looking for just this.
Nevertheless, you still want a woman that is
driven. If she wants to stay at home, cook,
clean, and take care of the children, then make
sure she's the kind of woman that wants to be
the best stay-at-home mom she could
possibly be. Without drive, there is no purpose.
12. She means the world to you.
Sometimes we love a person beyond
imagination and we aren't sure why. To be
truthful, you don't really need a reason. If you
love her and can't imagine your life without
her, then don't allow yourself to lose her.
If she means that much to you, then
understand that she means that much to you.
Too often people don't realize what the other
person means to them until they lose them. We
always think that there will be another chance,
that it's possible that the two of you will one
day reconnect.
Maybe. But the opposite is also true. You may
have lost her forever. You may suffer for
years and years because you let go of the
most important thing in your life. Don't take the
risk.
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